Dos and don'ts

This page has details of some personal requests and boundaries when you want to interact with me.

I will always treat people with dignity and respect, and I'd appreciate the same back.

In chats

If you meet or chat to me in digital spaces, please respect these boundaries.

Please do...

  • Send polite messages, and I'll try to respond when I can.
  • Ask me anything, I'll try to be as open as I can be.

Please do not...

  • Show me NSFW material without asking, I'll always ask before I send any to you.
  • Hound me for responses, or otherwise harass me or friends.
  • Reveal other people's identity or contact details to me.
  • Reveal my identity or contact details without my permission.
  • Discuss politics with me, I'm not interested. Like many, I'm here to escape.
  • Ask for details of my employer, this is firmly off-limits.

At events

If you see me at an event, please respect my chat wishes as above, and the following.

Please do...

  • Say hey if you see me, I'm super approachable!
  • Tell me your pup name! I might not recognise you.

Please ask...

  • For hugs, to touch, or to feel me.
  • To take photos or videos with me.
  • To invite me to places or to groups.

Please do not...

  • Touch me in intimate places without asking.
  • Grab or pull on any of my clothing or gear.
  • Photograph my uncovered / hooman face, especially if I am wearing any of my gear.
  • Surprise me, or approach me from behind with the intent to startle me.
  • Offer me drugs, food, or drinks / alcohol (unless I know you).
  • Invade my personal space without permission, or follow me around.

Please keep in mind...

  • I'm shy, and can get overwhelmed easily. If I look like I need space, please give me a moment, I'll really appreciate it.
  • My vision isn't great when my hood is on, especially in low light.
  • I struggle in loud environments.

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