Kink is part of who I am, but it isn’t the whole picture.
I’m drawn to dynamics built on trust, communication, and mutual understanding. I lean service-minded in many spaces, and I enjoy power exchange, playfulness, and intensity when they’re grounded in respect and care. At the same time, I value softness, reassurance, and emotional safety just as much as physical connection.
The lists below are a general guide to my interests and boundaries. They’re not a checklist or a negotiation tool, just an honest overview of what I’m usually into, curious about, or not interested in. Context, chemistry, and trust matter more than any single label.
This list is shared for transparency and conversation, not as pre-consent. Interest does not equal permission. All play requires clear, enthusiastic, and ongoing consent from everyone involved, and boundaries will be respected at all times, both mine and yours. No explanations are owed, and consent can be withdrawn at any time.
Butt stuff | Give | Receive |
| I'm mostly bottom, but enjoy both roles and I'm more than happy to flip too! | ||
| Anal (bareback) | ||
| Anal (condom) | ||
| Breeding | ||
| Double penetration | ||
| Vaginal (bareback) | ||
| Vaginal (condom) | ||
| Fisting | ||
| Strap-on | ||
| Plugging | ||
| Fingering | ||
| Object insertion | ||
| Cum dump (anon) | ||
| Cum dump (known group) | ||
Oral | Give | Receive |
| Most of my oral activities are dependent on fresh play. I'll always be clean and fresh myself. | ||
| Blowjob | ||
| Rimming | ||
| Face-sitting | ||
| Cum in mouth | ||
| Cum on face | ||
| Spit in mouth | ||
| Spit on face | ||
| Deepthroat | ||
| Face fuck | ||
Intimacy | Give | Receive |
| Kissing (mouth) | ||
| Kissing (body) | ||
| Spooning | ||
| Sleep-over | ||
| Affection | ||
| Romance | ||
Clothing | Partner | Self |
| I'm super into jockstraps, thigh-highs and femme. | ||
| Underwear | ||
| Thigh-highs / stockings | ||
| Cross-dress | ||
| Latex | ||
| Rubber | ||
| MX | ||
| Cosplay | ||
Marking | Give | Receive |
| Lasting hours | ||
| Lasting days | ||
| Lasting weeks | ||
| Permanent | ||
Breath play | Give | Receive |
| Over mouth | ||
| Poppers | ||
| Gas mask | ||
| Strangulation | ||
Bondage | Give | Receive |
| I lack experience / knowledge in being able to safely give in some activities, however I'm keen to be guided by someone with experience. | ||
| Handcuffs | ||
| Rope | ||
| Neck | ||
| Hogtie | ||
| Restraints | ||
| Spread-eagle | ||
| Vac bed | ||
| Suspension | ||
| Inversion | ||
| Mummification | ||
| Straight-jacket | ||
| Long-term | ||
Sensations | Give | Receive |
| Tickle | ||
| Scratching | ||
| Wax | ||
| Biting | ||
| Pegs | ||
| Hot / cold | ||
Impact play | Give | Receive |
| Light spank | ||
| Firm spank | ||
| Paddle | ||
| Light face slap | ||
| Flogging | ||
| Cane | ||
| Whip | ||
| Striking | ||
| No warm-up | ||
Watersports | Give | Receive |
| Haven't done any watersports activities before, keen to give it a shot! | ||
| On body | ||
| On clothes | ||
| On face | ||
| In ass | ||
| Drinking | ||
Domination | As dom | As sub |
| Domination | ||
| Submission | ||
| Edging | ||
| Forced orgasm | ||
| Orgasm control | ||
| Orgasm denial | ||
| Domestic servitude | ||
Scenarios | Would do? | |
| Public | ||
| Outdoors / nature | ||
| Exhibitionist | ||
| Threesomes / group | ||
Phycological | Active | Passive |
| Humiliation | ||
| Degradation | ||
| Forced clothing | ||
| Sissy | ||
| Abusive language | ||
| Hypnosis | ||
| Blindfold | ||
| Headphones | ||
| Hood | ||
| Isolation | ||
| CNC | ||
Nipples | Give | Receive |
| Teasing | ||
| Suction cups | ||
| Clamps | ||
| Pinching | ||
| Biting | ||
Toys | Give | Receive |
| Dildo | ||
| Vibrator | ||
| Plugs | ||
| Anal hook | ||
| Beads | ||
| Inflatables | ||
| Sling | ||
| Fuck machine | ||
| Milking machine | ||
Roleplay | Active | Passive |
| Pup play | ||
| Age | ||
| Master | ||
| Slave | ||
| Family | ||
| Adult baby | ||
| Race play | ||
| Kidnap | ||
Worshiping | Give | Receive |
| Body | ||
| Pits | ||
| Genitals | ||
| Feet | ||
| Boots | ||
Other | Give | Receive |
| Masturbation | ||
| Electro-stimulation | ||
| Human furniture | ||
| Glory hole (anon) | ||
| Glory hole (known group) | ||
| Gags | ||
| Scat | ||
| Blood | ||
| Needles | ||
| Sounding | ||
| CBT / torture | ||
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